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Becoming Christ's Ambassador to Reconcile Others (Insights in NT)

11/29/2012

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"It is my hearts desire that I must be NO more, that He be KNOWN more" (Saheed B. Olalekan, Christian converted from Islam). 

God brings troubles and hardships into your life so you can experience Christ's death and His resurrection power as His ambassador so others can be reconciled to God. Imagine if everyone in the body of Christ had a similar missional perspective? It would attract unbelievers to Christ. 

God Shines Light 
New Covenant ministry originated from God's mercy so they did not lose heart. They renounced secret, shameful and deceptive ways so as not to distort the God's word. In contrast, they presented the truth plainly to touch men's conscience in the sight of God. The gospel was veiled to those who were perishing since Satan blinded the minds of unbelievers preventing them from seeing the light and glory of Christ's gospel who is the image of God. Being servants, they preached Jesus Christ as Lord, not themselves. God made His light shine in their hearts so people could see the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ (2 Cor. 4:1-6). God shines the light and glory of Christ's gospel from believers' hearts to unbelievers' minds.

God Produces Life
The treasure of God's all-surpassing power was contrasted to being hard pressed but not crushed, perplexed but not in despair, persecuted but not abandoned and struck down but not destroyed. They carried and given over continually to death for Jesus' sake so His life could be revealed in their bodies. They experienced death so others could have life. They spoke after believing that God's resurrection power would raise them up with Christ so His grace could benefit them causing thanksgiving for the glory of God (2 Cor. 4:7-15). God produces life in others as you identify with and speak of Christ's death and resurrection in your circumstances.

God Imparts Eternal Glory
They wasted away outwardly, but renewed inwardly day by day. Light and momentary troubles produced an eternal glory that far outweighed them all. Instead of fixing your eyes on seen and temporal matters, they focused on the unseen and eternal (2 Cor. 4:16-18). God imparts eternal glory through light and momentary troubles. 

God Rewards Believers
God has an eternal house in heaven after destroying their earthly tent. They groaned and longed to be clothed with their heavenly dwelling in order to experience life. God gave them the Spirit as a deposit guaranteeing the future. They lived by faith, not by sight. Because they preferred to be at home with Christ, their goal was to please Him. Everyone appeared before the judgment seat of Christ to receive what was due them for things done in the body, whether good or bad (2 Cor. 5:1-10). God rewards believers who live by faith in pleasing Him.

God Reconciles People
Knowing the fear of the Lord, they persuade men. They lived transparent lives from the heart before God and others. God's love motivated them to live for Him who died and was raised again on their behalf. Instead of regarding people from a worldly perspective, they valued the new creation through Christ. Because God reconciled them to Himself through Christ, He gave them the ministry of reconciliation. God reconciled the world to Himself in Christ by not counting men's sins against them and committing to them the message of reconciliation. As Christ's ambassadors, God made His appeal through them to be reconciled to God. Jesus became sin for them so in Him they would become the righteousness of God (2 Cor. 5:11-21). God reconciles people to Himself as you share and people believe the message of Christ's death on their behalf.

God Reveals Christ's Death and Resurrection
Paul and his team urged them to not receive God's grace in vain for He helped them in the day of salvation and that day was now. They put no stumbling block in anyone's way so their ministry would be commended and not discredited as they endured troubles, hardships, distresses, beatings, imprisonments, riots, hard work, sleepless nights and hunger. They showed the character of purity, understanding, patience and kindness relying on the Holy Spirit in sincere love, truthful speech and the power of God.  They put on the weapons of righteousness through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report. They were genuine but others regarded them as impostors; known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, yet living on; beaten, yet not killed; sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, yet possessing everything (2 Cor. 6:1-10). God reveals Christ's death and resurrection through the sufferings of His ambassadors.

God Displays Fatherhood
They urged the Corinthians to open their hearts wide since Paul and his team spoke freely not withholding their affections. They commanded the Corinthians not to be yoked with unbelievers since righteousness and wickedness, light and darkness, and Christ and Belial have no fellowship and harmony together. Believers have nothing  in common with unbelievers since the temple of God and idols cannot agree. As the temple of the living God, He said, "I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people." Therefore, they were to be separate and touch no unclean thing as sons and daughters to God the Father (2 Cor. 6:11-18). God displays Fatherhood as His sons and daughters fellowship together with transparency and harmony.

Consider this quote by Martyn Lloyd-Jones and determine how your life and congregation should be different based on 2 Cor. 4-6:
"People seem to think that the masses are outside the Christian church because our evangelistic methods are not what they ought to be. That is not the answer. People are outside the church because looking at us they say, "What is the point of being Christians? - look at them!" They are judging Christ by you and me. And you cannot stop them and you cannot blame them." 



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What the Glory of His Grace Produces (Insights in NT)

9/12/2012

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"We tend to give an unbeliever just enough of the gospel to get him or her to pray a prayer to receive Christ. Then we immediately put the gospel on the shelf, so to speak, and go on to the duties of discipleship. The grace that brought salvation to you is the same grace that teaches or disciplines you. But you must respond on the basis of grace, not law" (Jerry Bridges). God originates all things for His glory through grace. Being immersed in His grace produces the motivation and power to serve Christ.

Worship Him
God has not rejected His people whom He foreknew. Elijah pleaded with God against Israel when they killed His prophets, tore down His altars and tried killing him. God said He reserved a remnant of 7,000 chosen by grace who did not worship Baal. Grace supersedes works. Those chosen among Israel obtained what they sought but the rest were hardened. As it was written, God gave them a spirit of stupor so their eyes could not see and their ears could not hear. David said their table became a snare, trap and stumbling block (Rom. 11:1-10). God chose a remnant among Israel according to grace  so they could worship Him. 

Reconcile World
Because of their transgression, salvation came to the Gentiles to make Israel jealous. Paul as an apostle to the Gentiles hoped to arouse Israel to envy and save some of them. Their rejection is riches and reconciliation of the world. Israel's acceptance is life from the dead since the root and branches are holy. Some of the branches were broken off because of unbelief so Gentiles could be grafted in as the wild olive shoot and share in the nourishing sap from the olive root. Do not be boastful but continue in his kindness through faith to prevent being cut off. If God grafted branches into a cultivated olive tree, how much more will natural branches (Israel) be grafted into their own olive tree through faith (Rom. 11:11-24). God saved Gentiles by grace through faith using sin and disobedience to reconcile the world.

Remove Sins
Israel experienced a partial hardening until the full number of  Gentiles came in. All Israel will eventually be saved when the Deliverer comes from Zion to remove ungodliness from Jacob and establishes His covenant to take away their sins. They were enemies concerning the gospel, but election allowed God to love them through the patriarchs. God's gifts and His call are irrevocable. Gentiles who were disobedient received mercy as a result of Israel's disobedience. God bound all men over to darkness so He might show mercy to all (Rom. 11:25-32). God called Israel and Gentiles to salvation by taking away their sins.

Show Glory
Oh, the depths of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God. How unsearchable are His judgments and unfathomable His ways. No one knows God's mind or be His counselor. You cannot give to God and be paid back. God originated all things for His glory (Rom. 11:33-36). God originated all things to show His glory beyond comprehension.

Offer Body
The most appropriate response to God's mercy is offering your body as a living and holy sacrifice for a spiritual service of worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind to prove the good, acceptable and perfect will of God (Rom. 12:1-2). Offer your body as a living sacrifice without compromise by renewing your mind to prove God's perfect will.

Exercise Gifts
Think realistically without boasting according to the faith God gives you. Each member of Christ's one body belong to each other with different functions. We have different spiritual gifts according to the grace given us like prophesying according to the proportion of his faith, serving, teaching, encouraging, giving generously to the needs of  others, leadership that governs diligently and showing mercy cheerfully (Rom. 12:3-8). Discover and exercise your spiritual gifts by thinking clearly according to the faith God gives you. 

Serve Others
Offer sincere love by hating evil and clinging to good.  Be devoted in brotherly love by honoring others above yourself. Serve the Lord zealously with spiritual fervor. Rejoice in hope, patient in tribulation, devoted to prayer, contribute to the needs of the saints and practice hospitality. Bless and do not curse those who persecute you. Rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another by associating with the lowly without conceit. Do not repay evil for evil but do what is right. Work hard being at peace with all men. Let God take vengeance since He will repay injustice. If your enemy is hungry, feed him, if he is thirsty, give him a drink for you are heaping coals upon his head. Do  not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good (Rom. 12:9-21). Serve others by honoring and meeting real needs.


Meditate and revel in the truths of God's grace producing the following: worshiping Him, reconciling the world, removing sin, showing His glory, offering your body as a living and holy sacrifice, exercising spiritual gifts and serving others by honoring and meeting real needs.




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Preparation to Receive God's Word (Insights in Prophets)

8/26/2012

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We wonder why people don't obey God's word after hearing it. Certain things must be in place for people to be doers of the word. For disciples to receive God's word, they must consider His holiness, experience forgiveness of sin, trust God's protection and presence and reject faith in humankind and their strategies.

Consider God's Holiness
In the year King Uzziah died, Isaiah saw the Lord sitting on a high and exalted throne with the train of his rope filling the temple. Above Him were seraphs with six wings each calling to one another, "Holy, holy, holy is the Lord Almighty; the whole earth is full of His glory." The doorposts and thresholds shook and the temple was filled with smoke. Isaiah cried out that he was ruined with unclean lips and living among a people of unclean lips but his eyes saw the King, the Lord Almighty (Is. 6:1-5). Consider God's holiness to reveal personal and community sin. 


Experience Forgiveness of Sin
A seraphim flew with a burning coal taken from the altar and touched Isaiah's mouth. He said his iniquity was taken away and sin forgiven. The Lord said, "Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?" Isaiah said, "Here am I. Send me!" He said to go and tell this people that they were always hearing but never understanding and always seeing but never perceiving. Their hearts were insensitive, ears dull and eyes dim so they could not hear, understand, return to the Lord and be healed. The Lord said Isaiah would do this until cities lie ruined without people, houses deserted, fields ravaged and land completely forsaken. A tenth as the holy seed would remain in the land as a remnant like a stump in the land (Is. 6:6-13). Experience forgiveness of sin and hear God's call as an ambassador of reconciliation. 

Trust God's Protection
Rezin, king of Aram and Pekah, king of Israel, battled against Ahaz, king of Judah, without conquering them. Israel's king and peoples' hearts shook like trees in the wind. Isaiah and his son told Ahaz to be calm, not fear or be fainthearted because of the fierce anger of these two kings who planned evil against them. God said their terror would not make a breach in its walls. Within 65 years Ephraim would be no longer be a people because of their unbelief (Is. 7:1-9). Trust God's protection, stay calm and do not fear when people seek evil.

Live in God's Presence
The Lord told Ahaz to ask for a sign but he refused not wanting to test God's patience. The Lord gave the sign of a virgin who would bear a son whose name would be called Immanuel. He would eat curds and honey when he was old enough to refuse evil and choose good. The land of the two kings they dreaded would be laid waste in the early childhood of the boy. The Lord would bring the king of Assyria causing great natural and economic trials to Judah (Is. 7:10-25). Live in God's presence instead of testing His patience by exercising faith in humankind.

Reject Faith in Humankind
The Lord said to write ordinary letters on a large tablet, "Swift is the booty, speedy is the prey," and called Uriah the priest and Zechariah as reliable witnesses. He went to a prophetess and she gave birth to a son named, "Swift is the booty, speedy is the prey." The wealth of Damascus and spoil of Samaria would be carried away by the king of Assyria. These people rejected the gently flowing waters of Shiloah and rejoiced in Rezin and Pekah. As a result,  Judah experienced devastation by the king of Assyria (Is. 8:1-8). Reject faith in humankind to prevent your land from being devastated. 

Reject Human Strategies
All nations that prepared for battle would be shattered. They devised their strategy but it was thwarted "for God is with us." God warned them with mighty power not to follow the way of this people and say, 'It is a conspiracy,' what the people called a conspiracy. They were not to fear what they feared or be in dread of it, but regard God as holy. He was  their fear and dread. He would become a sanctuary for both houses of Israel as a stone that caused men to stumble and a trap and snare for the people of Jerusalem (Is. 8:9-15). Reject human strategies by regarding God's holiness and presence. 

To be in position to receive the Word, these prior things--consider God's holiness, experience forgiveness of sin, trust God's protection and presence, and reject faith in humankind and their strategies--must be in place. 

Receive God's Word
Bind up the testimony and seal the law among His disciples. Isaiah would wait and trust in the Lord who hid his face from the house of Jacob. He and the children God gave him were signs and wonders in Israel from the Lord Almighty. They consulted the Lord and not mediums and spiritists men suggested. If they did not speak according to the law and testimony, they had no dawn but were distressed, hungry and their anger caused them to curse their king and God. They would see only distress and fearful gloom and be thrust into utter darkness looking toward the earth (Is. 9:16-22). Disciples receive God's word so they can consult and speak of the Lord as signs and wonders in the land.

Preparation Steps in Receiving God's Word: 
1. Consider God's holiness to reveal personal and community sin. 

2. Experience forgiveness of sin and hear God's call as an ambassador of reconciliation. 
3. Trust God's protection, stay calm and do not fear when people seek evil. 
4. Live in God's presence instead of testing His patience by exercising faith in humankind. 
5. Reject faith in humankind to prevent your land from being devastated. 
6. Reject human strategies by regarding God's holiness and presence.  

To be in position to receive the Word, these prior things--consider God's holiness, experience forgiveness of sin, trust God's protection and presence, and reject faith in humankind and their strategies--must be in place first. 


7. Disciples receive God's word so they can consult and speak of the Lord as signs and wonders in the land.

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Invest Your Life in Reconciling People to Christ (Insights in NT)

6/29/2011

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In Luke 14, we learned that those who minister to sinners come alive. He who turns a sinner from the error of way will save his soul from death and cover a multitude of sins (James 5:20). God continually searches and shows compassion for those who go astray, whether a person is immoral or self-righteous. Heaven rejoices when a sinner repents. Will you invest your life in reconciling people to Christ?  
 
Pharisees and scribes grumbled as Jesus ate with tax-gatherers and sinners. Jesus told parables about a man leaving 99 sheep and going after the lost one until he found it. After coming home, he calls together his friends and neighbors to rejoice over finding the lost sheep. More joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over 99 righteous persons who need no repentance (Lk. 15:1-7). Jesus searches and rejoices after finding a lost person who repents of sin. 


A woman losing one of ten silver coins carefully searches until she finds it. She rejoices with her friends and neighbors after finding the lost coin. Joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents (Lk. 15:8-10). Angels in heaven rejoice over one sinner who repents.

A younger of two sons asked his father squandered his share of the estate with loose living in a distant country. After spending everything and feeding swine, he realized his father's hired men had enough to eat, but he was dying with hunger. The son confessed his sin to God thinking he was no longer worthy to be called a son. Coming home, his father saw, felt compassion, ran, embraced and kissed him. The father brought out the best robe so they could eat and be merry "for this son of mine was dead, and has come to life again; he was lost, and has been found." The older son was angry and refused to go to the celebration. He told his father that for years he served and obeyed him, but never received a party like his younger son who devoured wealth with harlots. The father said, "My child, you have always been with me, and all that is mine is yours. But we had to be merry and rejoice, for the brother of yours was dead and has begun to live, and was lost and has been found" (Lk. 15:11-32). God yearns for both moral and immoral sons to repent of sin. 


Pray for family members or friends who have gone astray so they will repent of their sin remembering the promise of James 5:20.

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God Moves Heaven to Promote Reconciliation (Insights in Law)

3/4/2011

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God is more interested in reconciling  broken relationships than you are. He sovereignly arranges circumstances to bring people together. God provides resources to facilitate harmonious relationships. Even forgiveness is a gift of God. God moves heaven to promote reconciliation between Joseph and his brothers, which should be encouragement when you face unreconciled relationships.  

Joseph cried before his brothers only. He said, "I am Joseph? Is my father still alive?” It terrified his brothers so they couldn't answer him. Joseph told them to not  be grieved or angry even though they sold him into Egypt. God sent him to preserve a remnant and kept them alive by a great deliverance even through five years of famine remained. Joseph said it wasn't his brothers who sent him to Egypt, but God who made him a father to Pharaoh, lord of all his household and ruler over all the land. Joseph told them to say to his father that God had made him lord of Egypt so he would provide for them in Goshen. Joseph fell on his brother, Benjamin. He kissed, wept and talked with his brothers (Gen. 45:1-15). The offended party receives God's forgiveness by acknowledging the offense, trusting God’s sovereignty to accomplish a special purpose through it and working it out through transparent, emotion-filled communication. 

The news pleased Pharaoh’s house. He told Joseph to load his beasts for the trip to Canaan so his family, including his father, could enjoy Egypt's best land. Pharaoh told him to be without concern since the best of Egypt was his (Gen. 45:16-20). God provides and leads His people toward reconciliation.

Joseph gave his brothers wagons and provisions for their journey according to Pharoah’s command. Each received changes of garments, but to Benjamin he gave 300 pieces of silver and five changes of garments. Pharaoh sent ten donkeys loaded with the best things of Egypt and ten donkeys loaded with sustenance for his father on the journey. As his brothers departed, Joseph said, “Do not quarrel on the journey.” When Israel saw the wagons and heard what Joseph said to them, his spirit revived and said, “It is enough; my son Joseph is still alive. I will go see him before I die” (Gen. 45:21-28). God works His forgiveness through the offended party so offenders will experience it.


How have the underlined factors encouraged you in a past broken relationship that was reconciled? How will these underlined factors help you in a present unreconciled relationship?


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How Offenders Reconcile Relationships (Insights in Law)

2/26/2011

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The biggest obstacle for reconciliation of fractured relationships is selfishness. A husband and wife let bitterness build a wall between them so they won't talk or allow anger to drive them apart. Hardened hearts cause selfishness and becomes the wedge to break up relationships, including marriages, families and churches. A peacemaker takes advantage of timing, integrity, compassion and communication in reconciling  fractured relationship as you saw with Joseph and his brothers (Gen. 43).  For reconciliation to occur, examine how his brothers took responsibility and grieved over their sin in addition to a broken and contrite spirit with compassion for others. It's a model for you to follow in reconciling with broken relationships.

Offenders Take Responsibility for Sin
Joseph commanded his house steward to fill his brothers' sacks with food and put his cup in Benjamin’s sack. Joseph told his house steward to follow and say to the men after catching up with them, “Why have you repaid evil for good? Is not this the one from which the lord drinks, and which he indeed uses for divination? You have done wrong in doing this?” (Gen. 44:1-5). Obedience tests lead unreconciled offenders to take responsibility for their sin.

Offenders Grieve Over Sin
Joseph’s brothers denied stealing the money from his house. The brothers agreed that he who was found with the money should be killed and the rest become slaves. Joseph said that the person who had the money would be his slave and rest innocent. The cup was found in Benjamin’s sack, they tore their clothes in grief and returned to the city (Gen. 44:6-13). Obedience tests motivate unreconciled offenders to grieve over sin. 

Offenders Have Broken and Contrite Spirit

Judah and his brothers fell to the ground before Joseph. He asked his brothers: “What is this deed that you have done? Do you not know that such a man as I can indeed practice divination?” Judah didn’t know what to say since he realized they couldn’t justify themselves because God knew their sin. Joseph said that Benjamin would be his slave and the other brothers were to “go up in peace to your father” (Gen. 44:14-17). Critical step in reconciliation of broken family relationships is offenders having a broken and contrite spirit.

Offenders Have Compassion for Others

Judah asked Joseph not to make Benjamin his slave. Grief over losing his beloved son would cause him to die. Judah argued that they fulfilled Joseph’s desire by bringing Benjamin back to him. If he didn't return to his father, Jacob would see it as evil and blame Judah. He begged Joseph to let him remain in Egypt instead of Benjamin and said, "For how shall I go up to my father if the lad is not with me, lest I see the evil that would overtake my father?” (Gen. 44:18-34). Another critical step in reconciliation of broken family relationships is offenders having compassion for others instead of being selfish.

Answer the following questions regarding an unreconciled relationship that you face: 
1. Have you taken responsibility for your sin?
2. Have you grieved over your sin?
3. Do you have a broken and contrite spirit?
4. Do you have compassion for others?


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Engaging in God's Rescue Mission (Insights in NT)

2/25/2011

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Returning from a vision tour of Costa Rica, I reflected a great deal on what I saw and how it impacts my life in Lincoln. A short-term mission trip allows one to be an eyewitness of God's supernatural working to deepen your appreciation and study of the Scriptures. As a result, you have a greater desire to be part of God's  rescue mission in reconciling humankind to Himself. Luke had a similar purpose in writing His gospel.

Luke used eyewitness accounts and ministers of the word so a "friend of God" could know the exact truth about things taught to him (Lk. 1:1-4). The main characters in Luke 1, Zacharias, Elizabeth and Mary, gained greater understanding and experience seeing God work first-hand in turning people from darkness to the "way of peace," like He wants for you. Be available to turn people to Christ.

Zacharias and his wife, Elizabeth, were old and barren, but walked blamelessly in all God's commandments. He burned incense in the temple of the Lord while a multitude prayed outside. An angel of the Lord told him to not fear since God heard his prayer. The result was Elizabeth bearing a son named John. Many would rejoice at his birth. John's purpose as a forerunner would turn back many of Israel's sons to the Lord. In the power of Elijah, he would "turn the heart of the father back to the children, and the disobedient to the attitude of the righteous, so as to make ready a people prepared for the Lord" (Lk. 1:5-17). Turn your heart back to Him.

The angel Gabriel said Zacharias' inability to speak would be the sign that he didn't believe his words. After he came out of the temple, Zacharias was mute. Elizabeth became pregnant since God looked with favor by taking away disgrace among men  (Lk. 1:18-25). Respond to signs believing that God is real.  

Gabriel was sent to the virgin Mary who was engaged to Joseph, a descendant of David. The angel said to not fear since she found favor  with God. Mary would conceive a son named Jesus, Son of the Most High. The Lord God would give Him the throne of His father David to reign over Jacob's house in an eternal kingdom. In answer to her question about being a virgin, the angel said the Holy Spirit would come upon her and the holy offspring would be called the Son of God. After believing nothing would be impossible with God, Mary said, "Behold, the bondslave of the Lord; be it done to me according to your word" (Lk. 1:26-38). Submit to God's word in impossible situations.

Mary greeted Elizabeth and the baby leaped in her womb as she was filled with the Holy Spirit. Mary said, "My soul exalts the Lord . . . for He has had regard for the humble state of His bondslave; . . . for the Mighty One has done great things for me; . . . He has scattered those who were proud in the thoughts of their heart. . . . And exalted those who were humble. . . . " (Lk. 1:39-55). Be humble and praise God for His working.

Elizabeth gave birth and the word got out that the Lord displayed His great mercy toward her. God opened her husband's mouth and he spoke praise of God. Fear came upon those living around them (Lk 1:56-66). Be a living example of God's work.

Zechariah, filled with the Holy Spirit, said God visited them, accomplished redemption for His people and shone upon those who sit in darkness and shadow of death by guiding their feet into the way of peace (Lk 1:67-80). Verbally share God's word as testimony of His work.

Engage in God's rescue work by being available, turn your heart to Him, respond to signs believing that God is real, submit to His word in impossible situations, be humble and praise Him for His working, be a living example and verbally share His word as a testimony of His work. 

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Right Way to Reconcile Fractured Relationships (Insights in Law)

2/12/2011

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Nothing hurts more than fractured relationships with family members or close friends. A ministry partner went behind my back to undermine my ministry. I was devastated. God used similar principles in reconciling my relationship with this individual as He used in reconciling Joseph with his brothers who had sold him into slavery. God sovereignly arranged circumstances  as we enjoyed fellowship with one another in the relaxed atmosphere of watching a Nebraska football game. A perfect storm of timing, integrity, compassion and communication paved the way in reconciling that fractured relationship as with Joseph and his brothers.  

Timing
With a severe famine in Canaan, Israel told his sons to go back to Egypt and buy food. Only by bringing back his brother, Judah said, would they see the man again. Israel said, “Why did you treat me so badly by telling the man you still had another brother?” Judah assured his father that he would bear full responsibility in bringing back his brother (Gen. 43:1-10).  God uses trying circumstances to make offenders' hearts tender and responsive so they reconcile fractured relationships.  

Integrity

Israel said his sons should bring the best products of the land as a present and return twice as much money found in the mouth of the sacks in case it was a mistake. He asked  God Almighty to grant them compassion so this man would release Simeon and let Benjamin come back to him. The brothers, including Benjamin, went down to Egypt and stood before Joseph (Gen. 43:11-15). Integrity tests determine if people will choose character and reconciliation over riches and selfishness. 


Compassion
When Joseph saw Benjamin, he asked that an animal be prepared so they could eat lunch together in his house. The brothers were afraid the money returned in their sacks would provide Joseph opportunity to make them slaves. He reassured them, “Be at ease, do not be afraid. Your God and the God of your father has given you treasure in your sacks; I had your money.” Joseph brought Simeon out, gave them water, washed their feet and fed their donkeys. The brothers prepared the present for Joseph since they heard about eating lunch with him (Gen. 43:16-25). 
The peacemaker who initiates reconciliation must have a compassionate, non-judgmental heart in putting the offending party at ease to improve chances for reconciliation.

Communication
After Joseph received the gift, he asked about their welfare and whether their old father was alive. They answered yes and bowed down in homage. When Joseph saw Benjamin, he was deeply stirred and wept. He served them separately since it was loathsome for Egyptians to eat with Hebrews. The brothers were seated according to their birthright and looked at one another in astonishment. Benjamin’s portion was five times more than the others as they feasted and drank freely with Joseph (Gen. 43:26-34). The peacemaker observes appropriate cultural norms while engaging in free and open communication.  

This passage illustrates Gal. 6:1-5:
1. If you are involved in a broken relationship, look to yourself first.

2. Be gentle & humble while not thinking too highly of yourself. 
3. Bear the other person's burden by initiating the process of reconciliation.
4 Use great sensitivity in communication by asking questions and listening to help the offending party feel more at ease as preparation for reconciliation. 


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Pressure Helps Restore Fractured Relationships (Insights in Law)

2/6/2011

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Fractured relationships occur in families, churches and businesses. Husband and wives selfishly try to get their own way or become self-sufficient, which if not checked, leads to emotional or physical divorce. A parent shows favoritism to a son or daughter and the less favored sibling experiences deep hurt and isolation. A pastor and his church board don't communicate, so they go in two separate directions resulting in gossip and more fractured relationships throughout the congregation. A boss tries to control his subordinates instead of praising them for what they do good. As a result, performance suffers leading to more controlling behavior and eventual breaking up of the relationship through dismissal or resignation. The family of Jacob and his 12 sons is a case study on how to reconcile broken relationships, which can be applied anywhere, especially in families.
  
Jacob told his sons to buy grain from Egypt so they could survive during the famine in Canaan. Benjamin stayed behind as Jacob wanted to protect him. Joseph was ruler over Egypt and sold grain to all the people. He disguised himself after recognizing his brothers who bowed down to him. He spoke harshly and asked where they came from (Gen. 42:1-7). God sovereignly arranges circumstances that apply pressure to open peoples' hearts in reconciling fractured relationships. 


Joseph remembered the dreams he had about his brothers and accused them of being spies. His brothers addressed their brother as lord and said they were servants coming to buy bread honestly, not as spies. They shared their family background, including the youngest son left in Canaan and one brother dead. Joseph repeated his accusation that they were spies and would be tested by the life of Pharaoh: they would not leave until their youngest brother, Benjamin, would come to Egypt. One brother would be sent to get Benjamin and while imprisoning the other brothers for three days to test whether they were telling the truth (Gen. 42:8-17). One person must take the initiative to determine whether people are genuinely open to reconciliation.

On the third day of his brothers’ imprisonment, Joseph said one of them must remain in prison while the rest carry grain to bring Benjamin to him so their words could be verified and not die. They followed Joseph’s orders and said to one another: “Truly we are guilty concerning our brother, because we saw the distress of his soul when he pleaded with us, yet we would not listen, therefore this distress has come upon us.” Reuben responded with a ‘I told you so’ and saw it as "reckoning for his blood.” The brothers did not know that Joseph understood their conversations because of a interpreter. He wept, took Simeon and bound him before their eyes (Gen. 42:18-24). Ask God for wisdom in devising a test to determine whether the offending party has a repentant heart.  

Joseph filled their bags, restored every man’s money in his sack and gave them provisions for the journey. When the brothers found money returned in the mouth of the sack, their hearts sank and trembling to one another, they said, “What is this that God has done to us?” They recounted to their father, Jacob, everything that occurred in Egypt. It became another test devised by Joseph to determine if they would "bring your youngest brother so Joseph may know you are honest" (Gen. 42:25-34). God applies pressure so people see the consequences of their disobedience, which leads to reflection and sorrow over sin in order to reconcile fractured relationships.

Jacob and his sons became dismayed when they saw bundles of money in their sacks. Jacob said they had bereaved him of Joseph and Simeon and now wanted to take Benjamin. Reuben reassured his father that he would kill his two sons if he didn’t bring back Benjamin. Jacob said: “My son shall not go down with you: for his brother is dead, and he alone is left. If harm should befall him on the journey you are taking, then you will bring my gray hair down to Sheol in sorrow” (Gen. 42:35-38).  God uses fear to get peoples’ attention so they will consider their bad choices, be prepared to reconcile fractured relationships and take corrective action toward restoration.  


If you are experiencing a broken relationship with someone, do the following:
1. Ask God to open the heart of the offending party for reconciliation.
2. Pray for God's wisdom on when and how to approach that person to motivate them toward reconciliation. 
3. Ask God to bring necessary pressure to create sorrow for sin that leads to repentance in the offending party (2 Cor. 7:9-10).

4. Ask God to reveal the bad choices, be prepared to  reconcile fractured relationships and take correction action toward restoration. 

 


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Greatest Power Before Unsaved World (Insights in Law)

12/21/2010

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What is the greatest power that allows the unsaved to make a decision for Jesus Christ? It isn't prayer, though this is important. It isn't good deeds, though deeds indicate a fruitful relationship with God. It isn't good behavior, though Christ commands us to be obedient as sons. The greatest power God's children have over darkness is unity. Jesus talked a great deal about His oneness with the Father and the importance of unity in the Body of Christ. The two chapters here demonstrate this truth. 

Jacob placed his family ahead of him as they traveled toward Esau. He bowed down to the ground seven times until he came to Esau who asked about the people accompanying him. Jacob answered, “The children whom God has graciously given your servant . . . and to find favor in the sight of my lord” (Gen. 33:1-8). Showing respect and humility face-to-face go a long way in restoring relationships with an offended party.


Jacob asked that Esau take his present while reasoning, "for I see your face as one sees face of God and you have received me favorably. Take my gift because God has dealt graciously with me, and I have plenty.” Esau accepted the gift and passed on ahead while Jacob journeyed to Succoth and built a house (Gen. 33:9-18). When you spend time with God, you see Him in others as motivation to give generously to them.


Jacob bought land for 100 pieces of money in Shechem where he pitched his tent. He erected an altar and called it the God of Israel (Gen. 33:19-20). Acknowledging God in tough circumstances provides the necessary foundation and anchor for your life.

Gen. 33 demonstrates forgiveness and reconciliation, but Gen. 34 shows just the opposite. 

Shechem raped Dinah, Leah's daughter of Leah, even as he was attracted and spoke tenderly to her. When Jacob's sons heard Dinah was defiled, they became very angry. Shechem’s father, Hamor, wanted intermarriage between the families. He said Jacob’s family could live with them in the land, trade and acquire property. Hamor asked how much bridal payment and gift to give so his daughter could get  married Jacob’s sons answered Shechem and Hamor with deceit by demanding them to be circumcised, which seemed reasonable to them (Gen. 34:1-18). Unresolved hurts lead to deceitful speech that negatively affect the welfare of others.

Hamor and Shechem as Hamor was more respected than all the household of his father. Everyone listened to them. On the third day after being circumcised, Simeon and Levi killed every male including Hamor and Shechem and looted the city and their families while stealing all their wealth (Gen. 34:19-29). Unforgiveness causes irresponsibility so you  take what does not belong to you.

Jacob said that his sons "brought trouble making me odious among inhabitants of land and they will gather against me to attack and destroy our household" Jacob's son responded, "Should he treat our sister as a harlot?" (Gen. 34:30-31) Unforgiving spirit damages your testimony and makes you a stench to unbelievers.

Untruth and deceit break relationships resulting in unforgiveness, unreconciliation and disunity. Open and honest communication build relationships resulting in forgiveness, reconciliation and unity. The former causes societal chaos and violence. Unforgiveness causes a stench and damages your testimony before others. so you become loathsome and hateful to others. Forgiveness and unity lead to peace on earth and good will toward men.   

Meditate on 2 Cor. 2:14-16. Are you an aroma of life or death? For any broken relationship, take the initiative to forgive and reaffirm your love for them (2 Cor. 2:7-8). 


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